Happiness in Marriage

In this short life, all of us search for our happiness. Some says it is the core of this life. it is the reason why does humans exist. It is the main reason why a certain person continues to faces the uncertainties of life. People do many things just to achieve the perfect happiness they wanted. For couples, they say that happiness is the reason how marriage stop divorce situations. It is the key to maintain a healthy relationship. It starts on one’s self before he or she can infuse a kind of happiness to the person around him. 

A little number of individuals cannot find the real happiness in their life. Some of them often die searching for happiness. Why do this happen? According to research, it is man’s innate attitude of not being contented of what they have is the main problem. Human as we are, we are so curious. We never stop searching the meaning of something we are confused. Even if one had already find happiness, he or she still continues to search for it because he doesn’t know the exact definition of happiness in his or her life.

Happiness can be a plan which is subdivided into long term and short term plan. In long term happiness, it is established throughout your lifespan and it is the main reason why you keep life living. It is the foundation why you strive hard to pursue your dreams, career, family and others. In order to achieve happiness in our life, one should plan the right path which will make him happy. There are a lot of enjoyments in this life which will give everyone a long term or short term happiness. Examples are being lay, sleeping all day, watching television shows all day, listening to your favorite genre of music, day dreaming and playing your favorite sports. All of which gives happiness. It is alright to do such activities the whole day as long as it will not impair your social function because it is no longer healthy.

The activities we do for a reason in excess would surely delight us in the future as this could probably give you some advantage in your future life such as career and self growth. Example, in self growth, it teaches someone how to fix a marriage especially if the commitments were to blurry due to lack of time for his or her partner because of busy schedules. In achieving the right happiness in your life, one should be able to point out the facts that give her the right happiness and his or her purposes to be accomplished in his or her life. Majority of us doesn’t understand what things give us happiness and what are our specific purpose why we keep on doing specific things. In a certain population, only few had understood that in life, one should be able to experience pain; suffering 
and uncertainties enable to pursue a specific target, thus achieving happiness. 

If someone fails to plan for his long term goals, it surely entitles him to unhappiness in the future. It is because happiness is always been a choice. One should be knowledgeable enough to understand what happiness is, so that he or she can prepare a bunch of strategies enable to reach it. For example, if your goal is to be excellent in your profession, you should invest well in present enable to achieve the perfect goal in the future.