How to Maintain Being in Love with your Spouse?

Indeed when you are still lovers, you can feel the different thrill and joy of being in love, most especially if you are both at young age. But when you get married, it’s a different thing maybe because you are now entering a new world full of serious commitment. When you are lovers, you focus only on making each other happy like planning to have a date and making lots of surprises. However when you are married, you encounter difficulties especially on financial matters. And also, you think of how to earn for a living and how to take care of your children. Sometimes, both of you tend to forget spending time alone and reminiscing each moment when you are both young and gay being as one. That’s why when major problems come, you will want to shout “save my marriage!”
Time is very important in maintaining a healthier relationship with your spouse. Even if both of you are in the middle of being fully occupied with work and other activities, you must insert even just a single moment to be together. In this way, you will not forget on how happy and contented you are with each other’s company. Both of you will grow and so with the love you feel for each other. Make it a habit that during your moment together, constant communication is a must. Even just a simple conversation will brighten your relationship. And also, both of you must learn to talk and to listen equally.

Trust is another factor in maintaining your love for each other and on how to stop a divorce. You can’t just simply say that you love the person when you don’t even learn how to trust. First, you must trust and love yourself. Erase all the insecurities that you have in your life. Believe in yourself that it is only you who has the capability of loving your spouse and no one will ever take your place. You must train yourself to become attractive everyday like making sure that you are always sweet-smelling for your spouse. In this way, you will feel confident and will learn to have faith on your partner. Likewise, your partner will have no reason on looking for someone else because you alone are perfect.

Lastly, love is the key of long lasting relationship. Even in times of hardship, for wife, you have to learn to be submissive to your husband; for husband, you have to remain faithful and respectful to your wife. You must put love in everything that you do rather than thinking of your pride and differences. After all, what matters most is being together than fighting on who is right and who is wrong. You should both go on a date and find somebody who can take care of your kids even just in a while. You have to remember that you are free to do the things you usually do when you are still lovers. In this manner, you will always remember on how your life becomes special when both of you are being together. In addition, you can’t live a moment without even having a glance of your spouse; simply because what you have committed during your wedding is all that matters to you to become real.